Saturday, December 18, 2010

How do I deal with 3rd grade tantrums?

Ms. Dorothy,
I have a student in my 3rd grade class who throws tantrums. He gets violent and throws things and screams very much like a toddler. What can I do to make him stop?
-Frustrated Teacher

I wonder what kinds of things trigger these tantrums, the frequency, duration and situations surrounding them that might be a clue to what is going on  with him.


The truth is that this behavior is successful for him.  There is something that he wants, and he gets that need satisfied by the fits.  


It really has nothing to do with the immediate situation, it has to do with the attention he needs and the feelings he is experiencing and trying to express.


The tantrum will need to run it's course before he will be able to discuss it. 
Try taking the rest of the class out of the room the next time he "goes off." Then when he is through, perhaps he will be open to talking about it and learning some tools for better problem solving.

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